I am an invisible [person]. I am a [person] of substance, of flesh and bone, fiber and liquids – and I might even be said to possess a mind. I am invisible, understand, simply because people refuse to see me.
Have you ever felt invisible? Like you can walk down the street and people don’t even see you? That they look right through you? That to get attention from anyone, you have to flail your arms in the air and scream at the top of your lungs, “I’M RIGHT HERE! Why don’t you see me?!”
I have.
Sure, people see me. They see the unique clothes I wear. They see my tattoos and my mohawk and my piercings. They see them to the point that they sometimes ask invasive personal questions and try to touch my body without my consent when they talk about my modifications or my clothing. They tell me they know someone else who’s “goth” or “punk”. But that’s not the kind of invisible I’m talking about. I don’t feel like I completely don’t exist to anyone.
I’m sexually invisible, romantically invisible.


The Whipspider Rubberworks Ghost dildo is one of those toys to which people have an interesting reaction the first time they see it. Whether that reaction is shock or excitement, it’s definitely a memorable and eye-catching toy.
There are a lot of erotic videos out there that claim to have tell a story that isn’t just about the sex. But so many of those don’t succeed. There’s no sense of realism, no sense of connection with the characters. The “story” just serves as a vehicle to get the “characters” to have sex, not that there’s anything inherently wrong with that.





